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I served in the Navy.

Truman O'Kelly HildebrandI am a Veteran.

of Kerrville, TX

April 15, 1927 - November 19, 2021


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Truman O'Kelly Hildebrand (''Kelly'') passed peacefully in his sleep the morning of November 19, 2021.

When asked what was the most important and proudest achievement of his life, he would always respond ''my family.'' He unconditionally loved his family and his family unconditionally loved him. His living family includes his wife Carolyn (for 66 years), his children, Karen Clark and Sam Hildebrand, his grandchildren, Kevin Clark, Cody Clark, Cole Hildebrand, and Reed Hildebrand, and his great grandchildren, Haley and Kate. He was predeceased by his parents, Virgil and Ottomie Bell Hildebrand, and his siblings, Leslie Hildebrand, Keith Hildebrand, and Oneida Spencer.

Kelly's life was full of many accomplishments. He was in the Navy 1945-1946, serving as an aviation electronic technician. Upon honorable discharge from the service, he completed his undergraduate degree in mathematics from the University of Texas. He went on to earn his master degree in mathematics from UT and later was awarded an honorary doctorate degree. He used his high level education to become one of the most respected and admired professors at Schreiner Institute, which is now Schreiner University. He gave his entire professional life (55 years) to Schreiner, serving as math professor, academic dean, administrative dean, and head of the math department, and was an important part of Schreiner progressing from a fledgling boarding high school to a fully accredited university. He loved helping students learn. One of his most telling quotes is ''My office door is always open for a student.'' His dedication to teaching students earned him many accolades from his students and his peers.

Kelly believed community service is a responsibility. He fulfilled this responsibility in many ways. One avenue for this was through his more than 50 year membership in the Kerrville Kiwanis Club, for which he served as president 1979-1980. Because of the Club's annual sale, our home always had an abundance of mops and brooms. He loved helping with the Kiwanis pancake supper fundraiser and the Little Olympics program. One of the Kiwanis giving projects of which Kelly was particularly proud was the Club's efforts to provide shoes to the needy children in the area. Kelly also served as a coach of little league baseball teams for many years. He was known for giving all the players equal opportunities to participate and for producing winning teams.

Kelly's faith was deeply rooted. He was a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church, serving as chairman of the board of the United Methodist Church of Kerrville for several years.

Throughout his life, Kelly spoke of his love and admiration of his father Virgil. He would say that Virgil was well respected and loved by all, and that Virgil treated all people with respect and dignity regardless of the person's characteristics or place in life. Kelly learned well from his father. Kelly became the man that he respected the most. This made Kelly a truly loved and respected family man and community leader.

Visitation will be held at 1:00-2:00 PM on Friday, November 26, at Grimes Funeral Chapels, with a family graveside service following. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to: (1) T. O. Hildebrand Scholarship Fund at Schreiner University, (2) Peterson Hospital, and (3) Kiwanis Club of Kerrville.

The family would like to thank Peterson Hospice for the loving care that they provided in Kelly's final days.

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Danette Vines
Kerrville, TX
Tuesday, November 30, 2021

Our deepest condolences to the family.
What an amazing life of service!

Danette Vines
Secretary, Kerrville Kiwanis

Debbie and Jim Alsup
Austin, TX
Sunday, November 28, 2021

Dear Sam, Lisa, Cole and Reed,

We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved father, father-in-law, and grandfather. His life certainly exemplified the values we all aspire to, and was a life well-lived. Although I did not know Dean Hildebrand, hIs admirable traits live on through his son Sam.

Steven Miura
Austin, TX
Sunday, November 28, 2021

Sam, I am sorry I never knew your Dad. Knowing the son he left behind speaks volumes about the type of man and Father he must have been. I know it hurts and I am sorry.

Steve

James Leslie Hildebrand
London,
Sunday, November 28, 2021

My earliest memory of my Uncle Kelly was when I was nine years old and my father, Leslie (Kelly’s older brother), had driven from Bellingham WA to Vernon TX to spend Christmas with his parents (my grandparents), Virgil and Ottomie Hildebrand. It is over 2,000 miles and in the late 1940’s and early 1950’s the roads were pretty bad in some places. Once we got stuck in a mud slide and another time we got stranded in a snow drift. My father would drive night and day, stopping only to sleep a few hours from time to time along the way. We all slept and ate in the car -- that is my father, my wonderful step-mother Dawn Ella, my brother, and me. If you needed to pee, then you had two choices: either use the milk bottle or wait until the next gas station stop. It would take over 40 hours driving to get to Vernon, depending on the weather and the road conditions.

At my grandparents’ house there were only adults who, when they were not eating, would sit around talking. Uncle Kelly was both fun and funny. He took me and my brother, Fred, who was three years younger than me, outside and taught us how to hunt for longhorn Texas Horny Toads! Basically, you find a sandy area near the house and put your face near the ground and shout as loud as you can: “hornyhornyhornyhornyhornyhornyhorny”. You repeat this over and over as loud as you can and pretty soon the ground starts to agitate and the horny toad slowly comes to the surface and you can then pick him up. The first time we did this with Uncle Kelly all the grown-ups came out of the house to see what the hell was going on and what all the noise was about. My Grandmother was worried her neighbors would complain.

That Christmas my brother and me, with Uncle Kelly’s help, caught 22 Texas Horny Toads. Kelly found an old cigar box for me and I slept with my horny toads under my bed.

After Christmas my father started loading the car, a four-door 1952 Chevy, for the long drive back to Bellingham. I wanted to keep my 22 Texas Horny Toads as pets and bring them back to Bellingham to show my friends and schoolmates, but I knew my father would not approve. Halfway back to Bellingham, somewhere in New Mexico or Arizona or Utah, there was this horrible smell in the car which kept getting worser and worser. It was awful! The temperatures were over 90 degrees during the day and freezing at night.

Finally my father pulled the car over in a lay-by and started unpacking everything – suitcases, sleeping bags, clothes, boxes, Christmas presents, food, the bucket of water to soak the towels to hang on the windows (our only “air conditioning”), etc. – to try to find where the awful smell was coming from. After he had unpacked the entire car including the trunk, he looked under his driver’s seat and there was the cigar box with 22 dead and rotting Texas Horny Toads. He was so angry that he was not able to shout at me. His face was all red and he seemed to be choking and I thought he might actually explode or burst into flames! Wishful thinking on my part. He walked off down the road and I started to worry how we would get home because Dawn Ella didn’t drive and at nine the only thing I had driven was a tractor sitting on my grandfather’s lap. I could steer, but I couldn’t reach the peddles.

Soon my father returned. He handed me the cigar box with the 22 dead and rotting Texas Horny Toads and told me to get rid of it. There were cars passing on the road and they were slowing down to see what was going on and my father said he would not punish me there, but he would “take care of me” when we got home. (And he did.)

I told him I would like to bury my horny toads and he said if I was not in the car when he finished repacking everything, then he would drive off leaving me there with my blessed horny toads.

I found a sandy spot and covered my horny toads. A couple of them looked like they might still be alive and I like to think that somewhere in New Mexico or Arizona or Utah there is a rogue colony of longhorn Texas Horny Toads.

Even with all the windows down, the smell would not leave the car. We drove the rest of the way to Bellingham in total silence. At night I had to sleep on the backseat floor with my head right behind the driver’s seat.

The next Christmas I told Uncle Kelly what had happened and he couldn’t stop laughing. He asked me to tell him again what had happened and he laughed and laughed. He had a wonderful loud and infectious laugh. I started to see the funny side of what had happened and I laughed also but mixed with some tears.

That Christmas we still hunted for longhorn Texas Horny Toads with our favorite Uncle Kelly, but on a “catch and release” basis.


Jeannette W. Cockroft
KERRVILLE, TX
Saturday, November 27, 2021

I had the great privilege of working with Prof. Hildebrand for one year at Schreiner University; he was finishing up his 55 year career and I was working on my first year. He was unfailingly kind and patient-even years later when I would see him and his wife on campus for various University events. I now have in my SU office a picture that was given to me by Mary Ann Parker. For years it was in her office and now it is in mine. The photo depicts Prof. Hildebrand and his contemporaries in front of the Weir Building from an angle that makes them all look larger than life. It's a tremendous legacy of strength, grace and integrity for those of us who follow him.

Dalisa Gorthey
Austin, TX
Saturday, November 27, 2021

We are sorry for your loss. After reading the obituary, I wish that I would have had the opportunity to meet your dad. What an amazing man! We are thinking and praying for all of you during this tough time. Dalisa and Kemp

Polly Lucas
Dallas, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

Sending prayers and love your way. I am so sorry for your loss. Polly

Chris & Karen Shannon
Austin, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

We are so sorry to learn about the loss of Sam's father. Sending love, peace and prayers to the Hildebrand family. Praying that God holds you all in his hands and that you find peace and comfort in God, family and friends. Our deepest condolences to you all. Love, the Shannon's - Chris, Karen, Caroline & John

Mike Tyson
Houston, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

Sam,

We are sorry we could not attend the service. I am sorry for your loss. Michele and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Stephen and Jill Maniscalco
The Woodlands, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

Our prays are with you and your family in tis time of grief. May God comfort and console you during this time.

Marilyn Micheletti
Frisco, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

What an amazing man, father, husband and grandfather. My prayers are with you, Sam and Lisa. I am sorry for your loss

Claire & Joe Frazier
Houston, TX
Friday, November 26, 2021

Sam, what a remarkable and admirable life your father lived. Sending our love to you, Lisa, Cole and Reed as you grieve the loss of his bright light. God’s peace be with you.

Sarah McCrae
Kerrville, TX
Thursday, November 25, 2021

Dr. Hildebrand was a wonderful professor. He gave so freely of his time, and I learned so much in Calculus. I remember him telling me “Well, you can do it. You have to do it,” after I explained my concerns of being an older student. He and I had many conversations, and I am blessed that I got to meet him. He was a kind man. My prayers to his family. May you find comfort during this difficult time.

Kathy Tullos and Mark Morris
Austin, TX
Thursday, November 25, 2021

Dear Sam, Lisa, and family,
We are so sorry about the death of your dad. We know from our own experience that even when the death is expected, and even after a long life well lived, it is very hard. We are grateful that he gave us the gift of Sam, and by extension all of you. Many prayers and much love from both of us, and we look forward to offering hugs in person very soon.

Russ and Dona Angell
Magnolia, TX
Thursday, November 25, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and your family. Your Dad was such a kind and loving man, who did so much for others! I will always remember him for those traits.

Russ and Dona Angell
Magnolia, TX
Thursday, November 25, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and your family. Your Dad was such a kind and loving man, who did so much for others! I will always remember him for those traits.

Lisa A. Dow
Austin, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Sam and family,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your sweet husband, father and grandfather.
Even when you know it is imminent, a death can still seem sudden and much too soon for complete good-byes. After reading his obituary, I understand that Mr. Hildebrand was an honorable man and a "light" in the lives of so many. We are thinking of your family and sending our love as you miss him dearly.
Matt and Lisa Dow

Steve Younkman
West Lake Hills, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Sam and Lisa so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately I never had chance to meet Mr. Hildebrand or Kelly but just knowing his son Sam certainly speaks volumes of his character. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Frankie Behrens
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

I will miss our back porch chats. Prayers for the family and friends of this fine gentleman.

Laura De Stefano Laine
Sugar Land, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Dear Sam, Lisa, Cole and Reed,

Our hearts go out to you and your family at the passing of Mr. Hildebrand. The remembrance speaks volumes to as to his wonderful character and to the legacy he has left future generations.

May God Bless you all and may you feel comfort in these coming days as you celebrate his wonderful life.

Greg and Laura Laine

Amy Younkman
West Lake Hills, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Wow Sam, I am tearing up reading about your father. What a wonderful human being he was. The apple does not fall far from the tree. I see why you are his son, with many of the same attributes. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Blessings to you all!

George and Alexandra Tagg
Boston, MA
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

We are so sorry for the loss of such an amazing soul, but we are also happy that Kelly is resting in peace after a life well accomplished. The saying goes, “Get a good name and go to sleep.” Kelly clearly did that by helping so many people during his life. We are praying for the entire Hildebrand family during this time of celebration of Kelly’s life.

-George and Alexandra Tagg

Paula & Todd Wong
Austin, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Sam, Lisa, and all the extended families are in our thoughts and prayers on the loss of Sam's father, Truman "Kelly" Hildebrand. Sending peace, Todd & Paula Wong

Kiley Miller
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Kelly will be missed by all. He had an enormous impact on the lives of his students at Schreiner Institute/Jr. College/College/University. I was fortunate enough to have him for Calculus 1/2. I enjoyed seeing and talking Kelly and his wife (Carolyn) at faculty holiday functions. Our condolences to the family - the Millers

Carol Ferguson Hemenover
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and family. I met Kelly and Carol years ago thru Carol’s parents, the Johnsons.

Holly and Michael Cooper
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

We are saddened to hear of the loss of Dean Hildebrand. He was not only highly respected but truly loved by those who knew him. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May the wings of the Lord wrap around you and give you peace.

Eric Brewster
Cypress, TX
Wednesday, November 24, 2021

I remember when Kelly (always known to me as Mr. Hildebrand) came to Schreiner in 1949. He and my father (Rudolph Brewster) were great friends, kept dorms across the quad from each other...he was a frequent fixture in our home when we moved to East Barracks. We moved in 1958, and both men retained their frendship. When my folks returned to Kerrville/Schreiner, the friendship between the couples continued. My father always said that Kelly Hildebrand was the best friend he ever had...a man of honor and integrity.

Mary and Rene Canales
Corpus Christi, TX
Tuesday, November 23, 2021

My deepest condolences to his family. Both my husband and I were former students. We appreciate his dedication to his field and to the University.

Kathy Kramer Hill
HUTTO, TX
Tuesday, November 23, 2021

One of the kindest men I've ever known who taught me how to do math, how to be compassionate toward my students, and the importance of family and friendship. What a legend!

Cheryl and David Chrisman
Whitefish, MT
Monday, November 22, 2021

As a child, I watched Kelly during family events, and his love for family left a lasting impression. His kind and gentle way certainly was the gold standard of a true gentleman. May this honorable and wise man rest in peace, and the family be comforted by his many kind deeds.