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Kerrville, TX  78028
Monday, January 15, 2024
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I served in the Air Force.

Gene Delmar Van MeterI am a Veteran.

of Ingram, TX

November 4, 1932 - December 22, 2023


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Gene Delmar Van Meter, a proud veteran of the Navy and Air Force, husband, father, and great grandfather, passed away Friday, December 22, 2023, of natural causes.

The son of Charles Wilbur Van Meter and Virginia Jones Whittier was born in Marion, Ohio in 1932. Gene was born on a farm in Marion and later moved with his family to Newark, Ohio in 1938. His education began in Marion and continued in Newark, graduating from Newark High School in 1951. He furthered his education at Texas A & M University Kingsville and Alamo Community College in Austin, Texas.

Gene enlisted in the United States Navy completing basic training at the Naval Training Center in San Diego, California and continued to the Naval Air Station at Point Magu, California. He was next reassigned duty to the Naval Air Station in Kingsville, Texas as a young ''Airedale'' aircraft mechanic. After four years in the Navy, Gene was honorably discharged as a Second-Class Petty Officer. He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal during this time. He then re-enlisted in the United States Air Force at Randolph Air Force Base in San Antonio, Texas. He was first assigned an Aircraft Mechanic and Crew Chief on a C-47 out of Rhein-Main Air Base near Frankfurt, Germany. In those years, he was a member of a C-47 crew that flew the American Berlin corridor.

Upon returning stateside, he attended Officer's Candidate School (OCS) at Lackland AFB, graduating in March of 1959. Gene received his wings in 1960. He served at Strategic Air Command (SAC) as a Co-pilot on a B-47 bomber, out of Lincoln, Nebraska. At the completion in SAC, Gene was awarded the Combat Readiness Medal. Gene left SAC to become an Instructor Pilot and Check Pilot for the T-37 at Williams AFB in Phoenix, Arizona. He received the Air Force Commendation Medal for Meritorious Service as an Instructor Pilot for the 3525th Pilot Training Squadron. He was voted Instructor Pilot of the Year by the students of the class of 70-02. After much consideration, Gene transferred to Tactical Air Training Command and began training on the Douglas A-1E and A-1H Skyraiders at Hurlburt AFB. After Hurlburt, he reported to Nakhon Phanom, Thailand, (NKP) in 1969 and entered the ''silent war'' from Thailand including as a ''Zorro'' flying night missions. He also flew as a ''Sandy.'' Gene was awarded the prestigious Distinguished Flying Cross for Extraordinary Achievement and The Air Medal and eight oak leaf clusters. Upon completion of his SE Asia tour, Gene was transferred back to Air Training Command in the states to become Chief Test Pilot at Laughlin AFB in Del Rio, Texas. After 20 years in military service, Gene retired from the Air Force at the rank of Major.

Gene met and married Carol Ann Schauer while serving as an ''Airedale'' in the Navy at Kingsville, Texas. Gene was interested in becoming a pilot, and after their marriage Gene re-enlisted in the Air Force. They had four children during Gene's career in the Air Force. Steven, born in San Antonio; Mark in Germany; Debbie in San Antonio; and David in Nebraska. Over the years, Gene's family enjoyed hunting and fishing including Phoenix area lakes and Lake Amistad near Del Rio and enjoyed vacations at the Texas Coast. Carol was always the perfect military wife as she had been raised as a military kid. In 1976, after 21 years of marriage, Carol tragically passed away from heart failure.

Gene began working for Texas Parks and Wildlife (TPW) in 1973. He spent 17 years as a pilot, Game Warden pilot, Park Superintendent, Supervisor of the Park Peace Officers, and Chief Pilot. After Carol's passing, Gene accepted a position as Superintendent at Lost Maples State Natural Area. In late 1977, Gene married Eva Joyce (nee Boyer) Constant. A welcomed family member, Joyce joined Gene and family at Lost Maples near Utopia, Texas and later Austin, Buda, Kerrville and Ingram, Texas. Gene and Joyce both worked for Texas Parks and Wildlife at the same time for many years. After they retired from TPW, they moved from Buda to Kerrville and in 1996 built their home in Ingram. Gene and Joyce were married for 28 years before her untimely death to cancer in 2005. Gene continued to live in the home they had made in Ingram.

In 2009, Gene met and married Peggy Ann (nee O'Brien) Snyder from Celina, Texas. They were married over 14 years and had many great adventures traveling in a motorhome throughout the country, boating, fishing and celebrating parties and milestones with family and friends over the years. They were grateful for finding each other during this time in their lives. They made their home in Ingram.

Gene is survived by his wife, Peggy; his sisters, Joan Marciel of Livermore, California and Judy Gregory of Lancaster, Ohio; his four children, Steven Van Meter of Harper, Texas, Mark Van Meter (Esther) of Wasilla, Alaska, Debra McGee of Tuscola, Texas, and David Van Meter of Utopia, Texas. His grandchildren include Jennifer Van Meter of Austin, Texas, Austin McGee (Bailey) of Fort Worth, Texas, Skye Lynn Richey (Tony) of Utopia, Texas, Brenden McGee of Tuscola, Texas, Justin Van Meter of Bulverde, Texas, Carol Ann Van Meter of Houston, Texas, Alex Van Meter (Katie) of Wasilla, Alaska, Jeska Van Meter of Huntsville, Alabama, Aaron Van Meter of Wasilla, Alaska, Michelle Simon of Center Point, Texas, and Stephanie Gray (Adrian) of Okinawa, Japan. He also had nineteen great-grandchildren at the time of his passing.

A memorial service honoring the life of Gene Van Meter will be held at 2 PM, Monday, January 15, 2024 at Grimes Funeral Chapels.

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6 Condolence(s)
LEWIS Scherer
Mountain Home, TX
Monday, January 15, 2024

DAVID WE ARE SORRY WE CANNOT MAKE . WE CAN'T GET OUT OF THE RANCH
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS HE WAS AN EXCEPTIONAL MAN.
LEWIS AND MARI ANN SCHERER

Stephanie Gray
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Friday, January 12, 2024

I definitely didn't get enough time with you over the recent years. I'll never forget all of the trips you took us on growing up. Camping on the pontoon boat was always something I looked forward too even if we got swarmed by mayflies every night. And of course visiting and swimming at the dam when we stayedwith you! We love you and will never forget you pepa!

Don & Jo Wright
Palmer, AK
Friday, December 29, 2023

Very sorry to hear of his passing. He was such a great guy. We had so much fun when he visited Alaska. Camping, fishing and four wheel riding. He was my fathers nephew and it was so good to get to know him. I know he will be greatly missed by everyone.

Tony and Skye Richey
Sabinal, TX
Thursday, December 28, 2023

There are not enough words in all the languages to express our love for this wonderful man. He was the best grandfather anyone could ask for. Truly an inspiration in all of our lives. He left a mark in each persons life that he ever met and always had a special way of calming down and bringing peace to any tough situation. Family was everything to him, and the love and legacy he leaves behind is immeasurable. Pepa we will forever cherish the memories we had with you and look forward to seeing you again when we are all in Heaven. 💕. Love you so much Pepa.

Karen Sue (Schauer) & Bernard Hester
Montgomery, TX
Thursday, December 28, 2023

Sorry to hear the news of his passing..he not only was a great American hero with his military, but a wonderful Uncle...his Schauer family loved him very much

Eunice Banks
Commerce, GA
Thursday, December 28, 2023

People pass through our lives for a reason, a season , or a lifetime. Gene was a reason in my life,,,His influence and life made an impact as he shared his great knowledge of the galaxy, just being in his presence had an auroa of much influence in the short time of knowing him, forever grateful,,giving us , thru his son David, a Granddaughter for a lifetime. and thru her, three beautiful great grandchildren. His great legacy and sacrifice lives on........Salute!!