of Kerrville, TX
May 28, 1971 - March 2, 2026
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Charlie attended Robert E. Lee High School in San Antonio, where he was a member of the varsity swim team. He then attended Texas A&M University, where he was a proud member of the class of 1993 and the Corps of Cadets, specifically the ''Savage Six Flying Tigers.'' While at Texas A&M, he met Toni Buck in the fall of 1991. He pursued her actively, even when she turned him down at first. His pursuit succeeded and Charlie and Toni were married on May 21, 1994. After graduation, he took his first job as City Engineer for Cedar Hill, then shortly after moved to Kerrville to be the City Engineer. He worked the last 12 years as Kerr County Engineer.
As a husband, he was devoted and faithful, always in love with Toni and letting her know. Toni had no doubt of his love for her. As a father, he was unmatched. He led his six children in creative adventures, always encouraging their imaginations and loving them to the fullest every step of the way. He instilled in them confidence, resilience, and a strong work ethic. Most importantly, he raised his children to love the Lord and serve Him well.
No matter the sport or activity his children were involved in, Charlie was there leading the way. He coached flag football, C-3 Swim Team, two of his daughters' volleyball teams, and the Kerr County 4-H robotics team. He LOVED commentating Feast Patriots' volleyball games. Over the past year, he helped his son Caden to rebuild his great-grandfather's 1953 Ford NAA Golden Jubilee tractor, which they showed in Kerrville, San Angelo and San Antonio. His presence meant that all the kids were having fun and developing lifelong skills.
Charlie was a man after God's own heart. His love for God and love for others was overflowing, as evidenced by his involvement in church and the community. He led worship at South Church, which he found absolute joy in doing. Recently, he invested in the young musicians at First Baptist Church Kerrville, leading the next generation to the throne through praise. He played an active role in the local homeschool community by serving on the board and teaching classes.
Charlie was strongly devoted to raising up men to be disciples of Christ. Since 1995, he passionately led an annual men's fishing trip to Lake Somerville. He welcomed everyone, and the list of attendees grew every year. He cultivated a brotherhood marked by Proverbs 27:17, relationships formed to sharpen each other as men and leaders. When the Hastings girls were old enough, he initiated a father-daughter camping trip to foster a spirit of adventure, create authentic memories and ensure his daughters knew they were cherished.
Charlie's mission in life was to love God, love others, and win souls over for Christ. He passionately loved his Savior, and is rejoicing with him now.
Charlie was preceded in death by his father, Norman Hastings; in-laws, Ron ''Butch'' and Carolyn Buck; and brother-in-law, Mike Fletcher.
Survivors include his wife, Toni Buck Hastings; children, Taryn Hastings, Hannah Rey (Ryan), Kendall Hastings, Darian Hastings (Cooper Dorries), Caden Hastings and Colton Hastings; granddaughter, Elaine ''Lainey'' Rey; mother, Loretta Hastings; siblings, Stephen Hastings (Erna), Denise Hastings, Darlene Smith (Toby) and Amy Fletcher. Charlie is survived by in-laws, Tyson and Traci Fitzpatrick and Ryan and Stacy Buck. Charlie was wildly blessed and loved intentionally by each of his many, many, many (16) nieces and nephews.
Funeral services will be held at 10:30, Friday, March 6th at First Baptist Church Kerrville, 625 Washington St., Kerrville, Texas with Pastor Joey Tombrella officiating. Burial will follow at Boerne Cemetery.
Pallbearers include Caden Hastings, Ryan Buck, Tyson Fitzpatrick, Ryan Rey, Cooper Dorries, Joe Fix, Bobby Gore and David Robbins.
In lieu of flowers, monetary donations can be made through First Baptist Church Kerrville, Benevolence Fund for the ''Hastings Family.''
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21 Condolence(s)
Don Burger
San Antonio, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Charlie was the best of us, he was kind, loving, compassionate, and his heart was made of gold. I always referred to him as one of my favorite people because I just loved to be around him. He was a pleasure to work with and was a role model for how to treat people with respect and honor. I don't think he ever met a stranger and he never had anything bad to say about anyone. He looked for the best in people and expected the same from us. I grieve with you all for this extraordinary loss and hope that we all can find some sense of peace and acceptance so that we can follow his example in our own lives.
Mannie & Connie Lackey
Kerrville, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Worked with Charlie at the City. My deepest sympathy. You will be missed.
Jack Goodroe
Tomball, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
So sorry to hear the news Rest in peace Charlie. I am praying for your family
Pat Bateman
Cedar Hill, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
I worked with Charlie at the City of Cedar Hill. What a hard worker and much Ed loved person with the biggest smile ever. We all knew he loved the Lord. I have to tell his family that I had a Mom in a Nursing Facility and several times a day. One evening I walked in and heard a guitar and a soft voice singing as I walked in. Charlie and I had talked about her the day before. As I walked to her room and looked in, there was Charlie strumming the guitar and singing to her in a wheelchair. My Mom was so enjoying this with the biggest smile. That’s who Charlie. I’m sure he is at God’s side. So sorry for your loss family.
Ronnie and Joyce Martin
Austin, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Charlie…Rest easy, Sweetie! Your kindness and love made your family “winners” in this harsh world today!
Toni…Ronnie and I were so shocked and saddened to hear about Charlie’s death! We cannot find meaning in what has happened! It’s unfair and horrible that it happened to you! Please know that, however you’re feeling right now - sad ~ numb ~ guilty ~ tired, angry — it’s normal. There is no right way to grieve! Grief doesn’t wait for “the right time”! We hope memories of the happy times you had together can be of comfort during this incredibly difficult time as you start your new” normal” for your life going forward! We love you and we are here for you💞
Louis Fender
Kerrville, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Charlie was my first Public Works Director for the City of Kerrville when I started back in 2008. He treated everyone with the same dignity and respect no matter your position. He knew who you were and even took the time to learn about my family, He went from being a boss to a friend. There is nothing he wouldn't do for someone. May he Rest in Peace and may the Hasting Family find Peace and Comfort.
Maria Bourland (Ronie)
Seguin, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
I am deeply sorry that you and your family have to endure this journey. My prayers and my thoughts at this time. I pray the Lord give you the peace and His understanding. May God In His Infinite wisdom bring you comfort.
Michael and Cheryl Trexler and family
Bulverde, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Our hearts are with you. Our prayers are for you. Please accept our deepest sympathies and fondest condolences.
Mike Vaughn
Springfield, VA
Thursday, March 5, 2026
To my dear friend Charlie. The world needs more Charlies. You were a man of such strong faith, surrounded by a beautiful family and so many friends who adored you. It is hard to reconcile the joy you brought to us with the suffering you endured.
I am profoundly sorry that I couldn't help shoulder that weight for you. I wish I could have done more. I will always remember you were always a strong leader and a good friend to me at A&M and the man you became. I trust that your faith has now led you to a place of ultimate healing and rest. You are missed, you are loved, and you will never be forgotten
Tere Arlene Ferrell
San Antonio, TX
Thursday, March 5, 2026
My deepest sympathy to all the Hastings Family on the loss of dear Charlie. My goodness, I remember the happiness when he was born! You all are in my thoughts and prayers. My love to you always.
Joe & Memory Landrum
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
We are praying for you all.
Greg & Linda West
Montgomery,
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Lifting your entire family up in prayer as you seek to honor God and the sweet memories of Charlie. It was our joy to know your family while at South Church
Lives were changed and Charlie (and your family) touched our hearts while we were there. Our deepest condolences and love.
Rex and Sheila Beand
Mountain Home, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
I worked with Charlie when I was City Clerk in Kerrville. He was always one of my favorites to work with.
A Beauchamp
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Mr. Hastings has always been one of the kindest, most caring, gentlest, most supportive people I have ever known. He always went out of his way to make sure people felt seen, cared for, and loved. Some of the interactions I had with him almost a decade ago in the Kerrville homeschool community still play in my mind and shape the decisions I make in my day to day life. This is an absolutely devastating loss and I am sending all my love and prayers to his family and those in his community. He touched so many lives and was so widely loved, and we are all grieving with you.
Tammy Gabehart
Conroe, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Cousin Charlie, Rest In Peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️
Regina Gordon
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
We love y’all so much and we grieve with you in this unfathomable loss. Charlie has a special place in our hearts. We shared so many sweet memories from The Soul Café days. Oh the camping trips! And Charlie’s delicious onion rings. We all will miss his beautiful smile and big hugs.
Mary and Bill Winters
Houston, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Bill and I were so saddened to hear the news of Charlie's passing. We only met him one time at his office as he explained what happened in the early morning hours to our property in Hunt on July 4th. Charlie exuded trustworthiness, humility, and concern. He touched our hearts in that brief hour that we met. Praying for his family and all in the community who are suffering with this great loss.
Rich Paces
Center Point, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
We grieve with Charlie’s friends and family. He will be greatly missed. We pray for the Lord to comfort his family and loved ones.
Rich and Tammy Paces
Mike Pickard
Kerrville, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Working under Charlie was always a pleasure and an education. He always took time to hear our concerns and needs. I have always known him to be professional, kind and a proud Aggie. I know he loved his wife and kids dearly. I hope they can navigate forward in his absence. He was a good Christian man and will be missed by many.
Theresa Ann Jeter
College Station, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
May Charlie rest in sweet peace in the arms of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. One cannot fathom the horrific trauma and pain experienced by those impacted up close and personal during the tragic flooding last July 4th. My green ribbon is still tied around the tree in the front yard honoring the memory of the lost, the lost and not found, and all of the first responders (local and those that came from everywhere), county, state and federal officials responding to this devastating, unprecedented flood. Charlie was my late brother-in-law, Tony Green’s nephew in-law. This family is and will continue to be blessed with men the caliber of Tony and Charlie. My heart breaks for his much loved wife, Toni, and their 6 children. My sister (Jayne), Tony Green’s widow, and their girls, Rachel and Audrey, are devastated by the loss of Charlie. Prayers for peace and comfort for one and all. God moves very, very close to the broken hearted. God bless you, Theresa
Rosie
Austin, TX
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Unable are the Loved to die
For Love is Immortality,
Nay, it is Deity
Unable they that love to die
For Love reforms Vitality
Into Divinity.
~Emily Dickinson
I am so grateful for the years we have worked together. I only knew a fraction of your life, but the warmth, care, concern, and dedication I saw in that fraction lets me know you led an incredible life and will be severely missed. Rest well Charlie, thanks for everything. <3